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So there is this dude I know. His name is... Chad. And we've known each other for about three months. Well after we knew each other for a month I was sort of drunk and sent him a picture of me in a bra.. I felt obligated to date him. Wellll we dated for a little over a month when I found out he was sexing my best friend Brianna who happens to be four years younger then him, and my best friend. So I dumped him. Well he called my house a million times, came over with flowers and silly stuff like that. I've told him a million and one times I don't want a boyfriend and I don't like him.
Fast forward to tonight.
He called me while I was making plans with my family to go to the movies, he basically invited himself. He said he would be there a little late and to wait fOr him in the lobby. Well we were going to see safe house so i didn't want to miss it (excellent movie btw) and I didn't wait for him in the lobby. I left my phone at home and was sitting with my brother.
Apparently he waited in the lobby for an hour before coming into the theatre to watch the movie. He sat in the row in front of me and I didn't know it was him, it was dark. All I saw was this creepy ass kid watching me like a pedophile so I lean over to my brother and say look at that creep!
So the entire time my brother is throwing popcorn at the guys head and saying mean things.
Well after the movie I see that it was... Chad and was apologizing. He gave me a necklace and said happy valentines day alysha and leaned in to kiss me
When I say lean in, I mean all the way in, almost like he was doing a trust fall, and I'm not the person you should trust. I leaned out and he fell on his butt:
People were watching this and laughed so hard. I told him I had to go because my ride was leaving and he said oh well my dad was going to pick me up at your house (1. This guy is 19 he should have his own dam* car 2. He should have told me earlier he was coming)
I told him my car was full and he was all like my phone is dead.
Luckily my other ex happened to be at the movies too, so I said hey, you can use kevs phone! Kev poured his drink on him and I slipped out the door! I was so embarrassed.
So now I'm sitting on my bed with the necklace he have me texting my friend patty all of this and her reply is word for word:
Ur nott a horrrible person....ur cool! I love u! That made my day  <-prettypatty(:>

I hate myself.
What do y'all think?

Edited

I'm not a social person!
And you're right I am horrible.
Fine is not a good thing!!

Yeah that was all a little much...And you hang out with 13 year olds?0.o wtf! And you said he's sleeping with your best friend that's 13?!0.o isn't that illegal?0,o yeah he's a pedo and really creepy....but wtf are you doing asking for advice on a quest forum?0.o anyways....I say he deserved it:p

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I say stop hating yourself, you made it clear you weren't interested so he only has himself to blame really for not backing off.

Matias: I'm posting it here because no one I knOw actually plays this game so they won't see it. And she just turned 15 today and I said sexting not havin sex with.. Completely different.
Noobpod: I know right? All the seniors I know just want to party and get drunk and stuff and as I shown with the whole naked pic, I'm not good drunk.
Jamie: I can't help it.. He's so pitiful looking, and he won't leave me alone!!

Seriously it is harming you maybe not physically but definetley mentally, that much is clear by you posting here.

No matter how much pity you have for him unless there is a real chance of you getting with him then you need to ease yourself of any guilt you have made your point clear just keep to your guns.

Alysha: oh sexting? Lol I was off xD but, at her age that's still illegal in america

Jamie: he can be pretty scary when I ignore him if you know what I mean.
Mattias: is it? Idk I dont normally sext people lol.

I think I know what you mean. You have spoken to family/friends at least I hope.

Haha I can handle myself!

Sure you like to think that but posting here shows otherwise.

I just don't want to get hurt.

Sure you don't but giving in even slightly will just make it even worse for you in the long run.

Yeah sexting is illegal if you're under 18:p it's considered child pornography:p

Matías111 wrote:Yeah sexting is illegal if you're under 18:p it's considered child pornography:p

Please tell me you don't beleive laws like this are followed.

My cousin was almost sent to jail for sexting>.< Its enforced:p unless no one says a thing about it then they can't catch you

woah drama

Although this topic is dead and I hate to sound mean, this guy sounds like a classic scumbag. Anyone that does something sketchy like that (guy or girl) is not to be trusted.

dafuq did I just read? and on a quest forum? I'm lost here...

CryoFyre wrote:dafuq did I just read? and on a quest forum? I'm lost here...

This forum is not only for The Quest. You are in the off-topic section, for things not related to The Quest.